Jason Abalos tells story of regrets, reminisces past with lola who’s in ICU

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  • Actor Jason Abalos’ grandmother is confined in an ICU due to a blood clot in the brain
  • He reminisced memories with his lola
  • Jason narrated stories of regrets about the things he could’ve done when she was still strong

Filipino actor Jason Abalos looked back from the past and shared his happy moments with his 93-year-old grandmother who’s presently confined in an Intensive Care Unit (ICU) due to a blood clot in the brain.

He narrated on his Instagram post that his memories with his lola are coming back to him since Tuesday, such as when they conspired so she could bet on ‘jueteng’ unknown to his lolo. He’s the one who goes to the store which he said he liked much as the change become his.

When their food is fried chicken, he continued, she gives him two pieces instead of one.

As per his post, they stayed at her grandparents’ abode before since they did not have their own house until he went to college.

“Nong nag college na ako at nakabukod na kami sa kanila ako umuuwi pag sabado at linggo para mag laba ng damit pamasok sa school at dahil din dinadagdagan nya ang weekly allowance ko, di naman nya ako paborito, gusto lang nila ni Lolo sa mga apo na gusto makatapos ng pag aaral.”

[When I went to college and we were no longer living with them, I go to them on weekdays to wash my clothes and because they add to my weekly allowance, I’m not their favorite, but lolo likes his grandkids who want to study.]

After finishing college and he started working in the entertainment industry, he was unable to visit them regularly though.

The actor, now 13 years in showbiz, shared that their story has apparently became a lesson on having regrets at the end.

Jason said he recently talked to his lola and he saw her cry; hinting that she heard his story but she couldn’t speak. He said he should’ve told it when she could still talk, and hugged her when she could still hug him back.

“Nililibang ko lang sarile ko ngayon di ko din alam kung ano mararamdaman.. narinig niyo na to at narinig ko na din, wag niyo na lang hintayin na pagsisihan niyo gaya ng nangyayari sa akin ngayon na wala na ako magawa pag iniisip ko na “gusto ko makasama siya, madami kasi ako kwento, madami ako gusto sabihin, gusto ko din siya yakapin” sa isang banda nasa Panginoon ang pasya at nagtitiwala ako sa mga desisyon niya. “Panahon””

[I am amusing myself because I do not know what to feel. We’ve heard it before, and do not wait to regret it like I do. I want to be with her, I have a lot of stories, I have a lot to tell, I want to hug her. But it’s God who will decide and I trust His decisions — Time.]

Here’s the IG post from the actor:

Mula nong tuesday bumabalik sa akin ang mga alala namin maglola, kasabwat niya ako sa pag taya ng jueteng na tinatago namin kay Lolo. Ako utusan niya para mag pabili sa tindahan, gusto ko naman dahil sa akin na ang sukli. Pag fried chicken ang ulam una niya, ako binibigyan minsan dalawang piraso pa na dapat tigitigisa lang. Tumira kami sa kanila nong mga bata pa kami dahil wala pa kami sarileng bahay. Nong nag college na ako at naka bukod na kami sa kanila ako umuuwi pag sabado at linggo para mag laba ng damit pamasok sa school at dahil din dinadagdagan nya ang weekly allowance ko, di naman nya ako paborito, gusto lang nila ni Lolo sa mga apo na gusto makatapos ng pag aaral. Hangang sa naka tapos ako ng college, tapos napunta sa showbiz. Bihira ko na sya madalaw, madalas dadaan na lang ako pag uuwi ako sa amin sa Pantabangan at dadaan na lang ulet pag babalik na ako ng manila. 13yrs na ako sa showbiz ganon na lang naging kwento namin, totoo pala na nasa huli ang pagsisi na pag wala ka ng pag kakataon tsaka mo sasabihin “sana” o kaya “dapat”. Nasa ICU na kasi siya ngayon, may namumuong dugo sa ulo, kung ooperahan daw baka di na kayanin ng edad niya (93yrs). Kinausap ko siya habang nakahiga, alam ko narinig nya ako dahil nakita ko lumuha siya. Sana nasabi ko ung mga sinabi ko nong alam ko kaya niya pa sumagot at sana nayakap ko siya nong panahon na pwede niya pa ako yakapin. Nililibang ko lang sarile ko ngayon di ko din alam kung ano mararamdaman.. narinig niyo na to at narinig ko na din, wag niyo na lang hintayin na pagsisihan niyo gaya ng nangyayari sa akin ngayon na wala na ako magawa pag iniisip ko na “gusto ko makasama siya, madami kasi ako kwento, madami ako gusto sabihin, gusto ko din siya yakapin” sa isang banda nasa Panginoon ang pasya at nagtitiwala ako sa mga desisyon niya. “Panahon” ??????

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